How Do I Gain Confidence Around Guys and Life In General? 10pts!!?

I highly doubt anything is wrong with you at all other then a little shyness :) When you don't want to ociate with someone people can pick up on that and follow those impulses to stay away. It also can be that they don't think that you will accept their advances as well, they look at you and think they cant get you so don't try, its a sort of compliment really rotfl. Just take a deep breath and look at people in the eye, smile at them and let the situation flow, strike up a conversation if they seem to want one. Confidence in yourself is easy to build, just look at yourself in the mirror, compliment yourself, and really believe it. Acknowledge your good traits and work on the others you want to better. It's a slow but rewarding process, best of luck ^^